tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post8738194653433731716..comments2024-03-27T11:34:55.038-04:00Comments on Beauty and More by Pilar : Surviving Domestic ViolencePilarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06814477353093949969noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-30235393325752820272017-10-19T16:19:18.873-04:002017-10-19T16:19:18.873-04:00Thanks Nerline. You're too kind. I'm proud...Thanks Nerline. You're too kind. I'm proud of myself too. You're right there is hope. Pilarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06814477353093949969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-33893017052831069422017-10-19T16:17:09.769-04:002017-10-19T16:17:09.769-04:00Thanks Linda. I appreciate your kind words.Thanks Linda. I appreciate your kind words.Pilarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06814477353093949969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-33813383558776316102017-10-19T16:16:41.162-04:002017-10-19T16:16:41.162-04:00Thanks Kristen. I felt it was important to share m...Thanks Kristen. I felt it was important to share my story becasue like you mentioned domestic violence comes in various forms. Writing this post was a form of healing me. Even though this was a difficult topic for me to write about, I can tell that I'm getting stronger. I'm at place within my life that I can talk about my experiences with domestic violence. Pilarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06814477353093949969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-78488400142581208132017-10-19T16:09:08.648-04:002017-10-19T16:09:08.648-04:00Thanks KarynThanks KarynPilarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06814477353093949969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-80344073078589383412017-10-19T16:08:56.628-04:002017-10-19T16:08:56.628-04:00Thanks Susie, and you're welcome. I wasn't...Thanks Susie, and you're welcome. I wasn't raised in a home that included abuse, but I'm sorry that you went through that. In my situation the some of his mistreatment was cyber bullying during and after I stopped talking to him. I won't lie it can be am awful thing to experience. My mom raised me to stand up for myself and not tolerate abuse as well. One of the best things I did for myself is the day I stopped dealing with him.Pilarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06814477353093949969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-80116107553942401702017-10-19T15:59:32.102-04:002017-10-19T15:59:32.102-04:00I agree. This is very important issue, and you'...I agree. This is very important issue, and you're right no one deserves to be mistreated.Pilarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06814477353093949969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-25241881352433684872017-10-19T15:55:21.757-04:002017-10-19T15:55:21.757-04:00Thanks Pam. That's true, but I was talking abo...Thanks Pam. That's true, but I was talking about about sharing my love life in general. This is like you were saying sharing a true life experience. I agree more women, and people need to talk about these issues. I promised myself that I wouldn't tolerate that mistreatment from another guy again. I feel that I'm stronger now that I've moved on.Pilarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06814477353093949969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-13353996955817052682017-10-19T12:44:45.182-04:002017-10-19T12:44:45.182-04:00You're welcomeYou're welcomePilarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06814477353093949969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-20243704344562088792017-10-19T12:44:23.689-04:002017-10-19T12:44:23.689-04:00Thanks Sheri, and you're welcome.Thanks Sheri, and you're welcome.Pilarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06814477353093949969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-90564794650065416942017-10-19T12:41:29.228-04:002017-10-19T12:41:29.228-04:00Thanks Krolowa for stopping by my blog.Thanks Krolowa for stopping by my blog.Pilarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06814477353093949969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-50098689238059889542017-10-19T12:40:46.732-04:002017-10-19T12:40:46.732-04:00Thanks Marie, and you're welcome.Thanks Marie, and you're welcome.Pilarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06814477353093949969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-79065910896067343732017-10-19T12:40:29.215-04:002017-10-19T12:40:29.215-04:00Thanks Rowena. I think it's very important tha...Thanks Rowena. I think it's very important that people know that being abused is not their fault. Pilarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06814477353093949969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-89972175251565339412017-10-19T12:34:25.140-04:002017-10-19T12:34:25.140-04:00Thanks PaolaThanks PaolaPilarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06814477353093949969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-20491301244864436932017-10-19T12:34:12.487-04:002017-10-19T12:34:12.487-04:00Thanks Jackie. I want to encourage and inspired ot...Thanks Jackie. I want to encourage and inspired others not to be with a person that's abusive. You're right, abuse of any kind shouldn't be tolerated. It's just not worth it.Pilarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06814477353093949969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-11555654788246802812017-10-19T09:23:37.804-04:002017-10-19T09:23:37.804-04:00Your story will encourage others and give them str...Your story will encourage others and give them strength. They will know that they are not alone and there is hope. I applaud you for having the courage to come out and share your personal experience. I am proud of you. <br /><br /><br /><br />nerlinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11382624880633872811noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-7092723829117155512017-10-19T01:55:17.979-04:002017-10-19T01:55:17.979-04:00Thank you for sharing your experiences, Pilar. You...Thank you for sharing your experiences, Pilar. You are a strong and corageous women and will for sure help others that get the chance to read this post.<br /><br /><a href="http://lindalibraloca.com/" rel="nofollow">Linda, Libra, Loca: Beauty, Baby and Backpacking</a>Doctor Annehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13757983461575661675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-43407804409519074252017-10-18T02:14:39.956-04:002017-10-18T02:14:39.956-04:00Thanks Rae. I think that you're brave for shar...Thanks Rae. I think that you're brave for sharing your story too. It is really hard to deal with being attacked emotionally etc. Dealing with depression and anixety issues myself over the years, I can imagine how it triggered a quarter life crisis. It can be hard to deal with stress when you're feeling hurt. I'm glad you recovered from that difficult time in your life. I'm still getting there, but like I mentioned in my post I can see positive changes in my life once I walked away from him, and I do feel stronger.<br /><br />I'll definitely read your post. Thanks for the link.Pilarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06814477353093949969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-17861742122986660572017-10-17T22:47:05.738-04:002017-10-17T22:47:05.738-04:00Thanks Sophie for the kind words.Thanks Sophie for the kind words.Pilarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06814477353093949969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-29812434363540374282017-10-17T22:46:30.848-04:002017-10-17T22:46:30.848-04:00Thanks Ashley for the kind words. I'm proud of...Thanks Ashley for the kind words. I'm proud of myself too for walking away and moving forward with my life. Pilarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06814477353093949969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-73488451336048579912017-10-17T22:45:20.497-04:002017-10-17T22:45:20.497-04:00It took a lot for me to write this post, but I can...It took a lot for me to write this post, but I can only hope my story will inspire and encourage people to leave if they're being mistreated. It is sad that people act out viscously.Pilarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06814477353093949969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-80689379500264276912017-10-17T17:27:39.616-04:002017-10-17T17:27:39.616-04:00I'm so glad you decided to write about domesti...I'm so glad you decided to write about domestic violence because it is a hard topic to talk about and there are a lot of people who think that they are alone in this. Not only is it good to get awareness about this out there but it is a good healing tool for you too. There are all forms of abuse. Domestic and Sexual abuse. Both abuse are a horrible thing that we need to stand up against and hopefully end one day. I can't wait to see what topic you will take on next. Kristen Alperthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07017014526658053227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-36389557353918461652017-10-17T11:57:42.329-04:002017-10-17T11:57:42.329-04:00nice post Dear:)
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WWW.KARYN.PLnice post Dear:)<br /><br />Buziaki:*<br /><a href="http://www.karyn.pl" rel="nofollow">WWW.KARYN.PL</a><br />karyn.plhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15138746898878741364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-65969270279643630712017-10-17T07:30:36.884-04:002017-10-17T07:30:36.884-04:00 Pilar, Thank you for posting this....you are help... Pilar, Thank you for posting this....you are helping others. I know domestic abuse , I was raised in it. Had it in my own life...no more. I do not know how people can deal with it in this day and age of drugs and cyber bullies. I will say most of the abuse I was ever around was for total control over another human being. I raised my daughter to not take any kind of abuse. But to not be abusive themselves. <br /> I am sorry that you went through what you did in your young life. Stay strong and true to yourself. <br />Blessings to you honey, xoxo, SusieSusiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06425051654313691986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-80407320802083567012017-10-16T21:09:39.725-04:002017-10-16T21:09:39.725-04:00Domestic violence is an important issue that needs...Domestic violence is an important issue that needs to be talked about. You don't deserve to be treated like that. No one does.Midnight Cowgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01421913320445099664noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4353936534949661822.post-29909844742671252492017-10-14T18:35:33.133-04:002017-10-14T18:35:33.133-04:00First off....that would not be considered sharing ...First off....that would not be considered sharing your love life. That was sharing a true life experience and one that more women need to talk out against. Bless you for doing that. NO MAN should ever have that hold over any woman. You did the right thing by getting out and staying out. Shows that you have come a long way, you have grown, you are strong and life will be better for you because of that step. Hold strong in that and NEVER let another guy that close to you to do that to you...there is a right one out there. REMAIN STRONG!Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10211965720334593365noreply@blogger.com